The RealReal's, Kristen Naiman book talk w/Jane Dashley & Carla Rockmore

The RealReal, the world's most trusted and beloved resource for authenticated luxury resale, presents a modern guide to discover, define, express, and evolve your personal style.

This is not a book about fashion, at least not in the traditional sense. This is a book about style. Specifically, your style--and how to find it.

With chapters that cover topics like how to dress for your body and build your wardrobe, style callouts, expert advice, and fashion would-you-rathers, it's a space for curiosity, clarity, and continued conversation about personal style.

Filled with honest talk, big questions, tips, interactive exercises, spaces for reflection, and advice from our community (including some Real Style icons), Real Style is both a mirror and a bible for fashion diehards and the style-curious alike.

Whether you want to explore new style identities without losing your sense of self, navigate a complicated relationship with shopping, or simply refine your style for a new phase--it all starts with asking questions.

Real Style is written by The RealReal team, including Kristen Naiman, Chief Creative Officer, and writers Cait Munro and Sarah Leon, who bring together brand insight, editorial experience, and a shared focus on personal style as a form of self-expression.

Kristen Naimen

A visionary storyteller and creative leader, Kristen serves as the Chief Brand Officer of The RealReal, the world’s largest marketplace for authenticated luxury resale. In this role, she orchestrates the company’s global brand identity and creative strategy across corporate, advertising, and retail divisions. Kristen is the host of Real Talk, a podcast featuring deep-dives with acclaimed creatives on the evolution of personal style, and is the co-author of the upcoming book RealStyle (Abrams, October 2026), a definitive guide to authentic self-expression.

A lifelong lover and seeker of second hand, Kristen has spent her career exploring style as a form of personal and cultural expression. She is the editor of “Stuff: A New York Life of Cultural Chaos,” by Kim Hastreiter, a memoir and cultural history through the lens of one iconic New Yorker’s collection of stuff.

Kristen’s extensive industry experience includes serving as Senior Vice President at Kate Spade New York, where she spearheaded the award-winning Missadventure series, and as Creative Director at Isaac Mizrahi. A co-founder of the brand Apiece Apart, Kristen has also consulted for global brands including GAP and Madewell. Her editorial contributions have been featured in Paper, Teen Vogue, and Harper’s Bazaar.

Moderator - Carla Rockmore

Dubbed the "Real-Life Carrie Bradshaw of TikTok" by Vogue, Carla Rockmore is a 59-year-old fashion designer, content creator, and innovator who transformed her 30-year design career into a social media phenomenon. With over 2.8 million followers, her creativity and authenticity resonate across generations. Carla's colorful, joyful approach combines vintage gems with modern pieces in unexpected ways, creating looks that are both aspirational and inclusive. Her content showcases expertise in jewelry design and clothing curation, offering insights on accessorizing, color theory, and incorporating statement pieces into everyday wear. Carla's social media stardom began in March 2020 during lockdown, filming styling videos in her closet to entertain friends during the early days of covid. Her daughter Ivy's suggestion to post on TikTok led to viral success and a thriving online community. Carla's mission: empower women of all ages to embrace their unique style and radiate confidence. This philosophy shines through her eclectic and bold clothing and jewelry designs. By bridging generations and demonstrating fashion as a tool for personal growth and societal change, Carla encourages viewers to have fun with style. Her fresh perspective, enriched by historical knowledge, proves that fashion is more than just clothes. It can be a powerful means of self-expression and joy.

Moderator - Jane Dashley

Jane Dashley is a Texas-based painter whose figurative work draws on folk, feminist and mythic imagery. Her paintings are held in collections around the world, and her solo exhibition opens at the Ellen Noel Art Museum in 2027. Before turning to painting, she was one of the first style bloggers, chronicling her personal style and vintage collection on Sea of Shoes and collaborating with houses including Chanel, Burberry, and Miu Miu