The Patterns We Inherit: A Family Constellations Workshop

The Patterns We Inherit

An Experiential Introduction to Family Constellations & Systemic Dynamics

What if some of the patterns shaping your life did not begin with you?

The families and environments we grow within can influence how we experience belonging, relationships, money, success, business, identity and major life choices. Some of these patterns become valuable strengths. Others may quietly limit us or keep us responding in ways that no longer feel right.

The Patterns We Inherit is a two-hour experiential introduction to Family Constellations and Systemic Dynamics, guided by Maritza Aulestia.

Rather than simply listening to a lecture, you’ll be invited to reflect, participate and gently explore the patterns that may be influencing your life.

What You’ll Explore

Maritza will introduce three foundational systemic principles:

Belonging
Explore our need for connection and how experiences of inclusion or exclusion may influence our patterns.

Order
Consider family roles, generational dynamics and the importance of finding an appropriate place within a system.

Balance of Giving and Receiving
Notice how over-giving, difficulty receiving or an imbalance in reciprocity may affect relationships and results.

Together, you’ll explore how these dynamics may appear in:

• Love and intimate relationships
• Family relationships
• Money and abundance
• Business and career
• Success and achievement
• Identity, purpose and major life choices

What to Expect

During this interactive experience, you’ll have an opportunity to:

• Recognize how systemic patterns can become both strengths and barriers
• Reflect on recurring patterns within your own life
• Identify one pattern you may be ready to understand differently
• Participate in a guided individual reflection
• Explore insights through small-group conversation
• Develop questions and curiosity for deeper personal exploration

You are always welcome to share only what feels comfortable. The experience emphasizes awareness, choice and possibility—not blame, judgment or the diagnosis of family dynamics.

We may not be able to change where our story began, but awareness can change what we do with what we inherited.

The intention is for you to leave with greater awareness of your patterns, appreciation for the strengths they may have created, and curiosity about what could become possible when you choose a different response.

Who Is This For?

This experience may be meaningful for you if:

• You notice recurring patterns in your relationships or decisions
• You are navigating a transition in your personal or professional life
• You are curious about Family Constellations and systemic work
• You want to better understand what may be shaping your choices
• You are ready to explore your story with compassion and curiosity

No previous experience with Family Constellations is needed.

About Maritza Aulestia

Maritza Aulestia is the Founding Partner and President of My Purpose Consulting and brings more than 20 years of experience in Family and Systemic Constellations and complementary personal-development practices.

Her work explores the patterns that shape relationships, identity, purpose, abundance, leadership and major life choices, helping people develop greater awareness and freedom in how they live, relate and choose.

Maritza’s philosophy is simple:

Your patterns may explain you. They do not have to define you.

The work is to become aware enough to choose—and courageous enough to live that choice.

Less Performing. More Being.

Event Details

Saturday, November 7, 2026
2:00–4:00 PM
Investment: $55 per person
Limited to 16 participants

Please arrive 10–15 minutes early so you have time to settle in. Doors will be locked shortly after the experience begins to protect the group environment.

You may wish to bring a journal or notebook for personal reflections.

Please Note

This is an introductory group experience and does not include a complete individual Family Constellation.

Family and Systemic Constellations are experiential personal-development practices focused on self-awareness, relationships, patterns, purpose and life transitions. This experience is not intended to diagnose, treat or cure mental-health conditions and is not a substitute for psychotherapy, medical care or other licensed professional services.